一個故事說穿了很多人 ; A story put it bluntly, a lot of people

A不喜歡吃雞蛋，每次發了雞蛋都給B吃。剛開始B很感謝，久而久之便習慣了。

習慣 了，便理所當然了。於是，直到有一天，A將雞蛋給了C，B就不爽了。她忘記了這個 雞蛋本來就是A的，A想給誰都可以。為此，她們大吵一架，從此絕交。


有一年，很熱的夏天，一隊人出去漂流。
女孩的拖鞋在玩水的時候，把拖鞋掉下去了，沉底了。到岸邊的時候，全是曬的很 燙的鵝卵石，他們要走很長的一段路。

於是，女孩兒就向別人尋求幫忙，可是誰都 只有一雙拖鞋。女孩心裏很不爽，因為她習慣了向別人求助，而只要撒嬌就會得到 滿意地答覆。可是這次卻沒有。她忽然覺得這些人都不好，都見死不救。

後來，有一個男孩將自己的拖鞋給了她，然後自己赤腳在那曬得滾燙的鵝卵石上走 了很久的路。還自嘲說是鐵板燒。女孩表示感謝，男孩說，你要記住，沒有誰是必 須要幫你的。

幫你是出於交情，不幫你是應該。女孩記住了男孩的話，自此以後學會了對施以援手的人銘記在心，並給以更大的回報。

很多時候，我們總是希望得到別人的好。
一開始，感激不盡。可是久了，便是習慣了。習慣了一個人對你的好，便認為是理所應當的。

有一天不對你好了，你便覺得怨懟。其實，不是別人不好了，而是我們的要求變多了。習慣了得到，便忘記了感恩。



A does not like to eat eggs, eat eggs gave B each time. Beginning B very grateful, and the passage of time will be used to.

Used to it, we take for granted. Thus, until one day, A eggs to the C and B of sorts. She forgot the eggs originally belong to A he wanted to give everyone follow he want . To this, they had a big quarrel still since then tear up.


One year, very hot summer, a team of people to go out rafting.
Girls wearing slippers dabble on beach, slippers fall off, sink to the bottom. when nearshore , because the sun too hot the pebbles road is very hot , and they need go a very long way.

So, the girl on to others for help, but no one will help because all just have only a pair of slippers. The girl was very unhappy, because she used to ask for help, and as long as the flighty get satisfaction reply. But this time it did not. She suddenly felt that these people are not good, and do nothing about them.

Later, a boy give the slippers to her, and then himself barefoot the road come so far that tan hot pebbles. Also joked and said like teppanyaki. The is girl thanked to he , the boy said, you have to remember, no one is required to help you.

Help you is because friendship, not should be. Girls remember the boy's since learned to lend a helping hand to keep them in mind and give greater returns.

Many times, we always hope to get better.
Beginning grateful. But for a long time, is habit. Accustomed to a person of your good, and we think that is as it should be.

One day be not good with you, you would feel resentment. In fact, none other be no good, but our request more. Used to get, forget Thanksgiving.